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From Totley to Florida
As
Rev Chris Kirk and his family prepare to leave Sheffield
and move to America,
we take the opportunity
to share
in his reflections on 5 years as Minister of Totley Rise Methodist
Church.
Chris
and wife Heather came to Sheffield back in
2000. 2003 saw
the arrival of their son Ethan, now
18 months old. Chris’ time as Minister is memorable for his work inside
and
outside of his 2 churches. On the surface, his services are great
performances —
often choreographed to contain clips from recent film releases or chart
hits,
frequently involving members of the church, but always, always
featuring his
sense of humour. As Lynne Capewell, Church Steward, says, “Chris tells
the
corniest jokes carrying the most meaningful message.”
One
of Chris’ aims has been to bring new people into church — or in the
case of
many events, to bring the church out to the people. Ever walked past
TRM on a
Good Friday and seen the open air services in the car park? Or enjoyed
a mince
pie and carols during “Pies on the Rise” each Christmas. “Praise in the
Park”
has seen TRM take over Green Oak Park on summer weekends for services
followed
by BBQs and bouncy castles. Chris has interwoven his passion for
football into
many services, most memorably in 2002 when Sunday morning services were
moved
forward to accommodate World Cup matches. Supporters stayed on after
the
services to watch the matches on a wide-screen TV and eat bacon
butties. Bacon
butties were also a staple of Men’s Breakfasts held at Tiger’s Rugby
Club,
which featured visiting speakers from the world of sport and
broadcasting.
Chris’
aim of introducing the church to new people through such events has
worked.
Clive Carter, who has been coming to church for the past 18 months,
first
experienced TRM through the Journey to Bethlehem (J2B). Chris and
Heather
introduced the idea for the event in 2003 from their previous church in
Texas, USA.
Each J2B involves a
huge number of
people from TRM. The story of Jesus’ birth is told by 40 actors, who
are
supported by a large team of dancers, prop and set designers, lighting
and
sound technicians, not to mention real sheep and donkeys (we will
return to the
theme of animals later.,.). Clive described J2B as a “phenomenal,
amazing
achievement” and said that as a visitor to the church, he was left with
an
overwhelming impression of people’s faith and passion. (See page 2 for
details
J2B 2005).
Returning
to the animals, Chris has not shied away from the old adage, and has
frequently
used animals in church events — even bringing them into church (Palm
Sunday
donkeys, and of course the infamous goat on World Vision day who did
not
disappoint). Children too have played a huge part in the life of the
church, from tiny babies playing the infant Jesus in the J2B
productions to
Youth groups for all ages who meet throughout the week. Chris and
Heather have
also introduced an international flavour to events. They invited the
African
Children’s Choir, and a Youth group from their church in Texas.
With
so many special events that stand out during the past five years, it is
important to reflect on the regular elements of Fellowship meetings,
Luncheon
and Pushchair clubs for the older and younger members of TRM, the
Advice
Service drop in sessions which provide practical support, and the
coffee
mornings and Friendship groups to which TRM has played host.
Chris
sums up the purpose of all these activities, saying that in his time as
Minister his aim has been: “To bring more people into the church, and
bring
existing people on.”
Heather
and Chris say they will miss their extended family here at TRM, and
people’s
have-a-go attitude, which has made it possible to turn ideas into real
events
with big impacts.
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Changing Revs
Groucho
Marx famously said,
‘1 don’t want to belong to any club that
would have me as a member’. Just over
5 years ago I wondered what a certain church was doing having me as its
Minister, having never met us until the day of our arrival. However, we
need not
have worried. From the outset we knew we were amongst loving, committed
people.
We felt wanted. Thank you! All that we believed the Lord was saying
about the
move was rapidly confirmed. With our feet upon God’s country we soon
felt at
home. (The Leicester City
footballer on our Welcome poster also helped, despite
him having 2 left feet).
Totley
Rise Methodist has
shown me how fulfilling ministry can be. Together we have sought to
serve the
Lord in a number of contrasting ways. Some have been more effective
than
others. But we only regret when we don’t try.
We
are faced with an
endless aisle of choices. One guiding principle is to listen to
another’s
recommendation. Heather and I would not hesitate in recommending TRM.
We pray
for that spirit of generosity to increase amongst you. As John Freeman
said of this
church at our recent Membership Service, “See how they love one
another.” When
people see that love, a door is opened to showing them the greatest
love, that
of our Saviour Jesus Christ.
Garry,
Dawn and Joel Dawson-Jones arrive
in August. Garry officially starts September 1.
There
are many things you can do to
welcome them as a family.
Offering
meals and childcare early in their arrival can be appreciated.
Let them know about key locations in the area such as
supermarkets, dentists, doctors, hairdressers, restaurants, theatres,
etc.
Pray for them regularly and offer regular
encouragement.
Remember that Garry will be not able to meet
every
need and fulfill every vision, though he’ll probably try!
If
they receive anything
like the welcome we were given they’ll soon feel at home. While there
will be
some similarities between Garry and me, overall his approach will not
be the
same. However, where he wants to go with the church will be - to
bring new people in and to bring existing people on. I believe that the
Lord
has exciting plans in store for TRM. And I believe you’ll want to be
part of
that! All our love,
Chris, Heather and
Ethan
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In the
Spotlight - LEGOs
No it’s not a
plastic brick
from Denmark!
It is a walking group started by Terry and Margaret
Birch when Terry retired. Looking round the church they saw that there
were
several people like them who had retired but were by no means ready for
their
pipe and slippers in front of the television. They wanted to live full
lives,
enjoy themselves and make friends. Put this together with the beautiful
country-side and a desire to walk in it and you have LEGO — Let’s Enjoy
Growing Older.
The LEGO
group meets at the
church at 9.15 am on the
second Friday of
each month then drives into the local area for walks of about 8 miles.
There is
always a lunch stop, usually at a conveniently placed local pub (the
walks are
planned with that in mind). The walks take place whatever the weather.
After
one particularly wet day Terry was heard to say that he was thinking of
renaming the group LEGOFS - Let’s Enjoy Getting Our Friends
Soaked!
If you are interested in
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Family
News
Goodbye
to Leesa, Mark
and Callum Beal, who are
heading off to Northern Ireland
after 3 years in Sheffield. Leesa has accepted
a new job as a financial analyst, and Mark will be
achieving a long held ambition in studying for a PhD in Medieval
History. We
can also report that the Cuthbertson
family are on the move, and Wallace
has safely arrived in Singapore
and is already working. Nuala and the boys will remain
here until the end of the summer term, and will be reuniting in August
in Singapore,
in time for the boys to start their new schools.
Lastly,
we will soon be
bidding farewell to Chris, Heather
and Ethan Kirk who are moving
to Florida this summer.
Chris’ reflections on his time as
minister of TRM can be found above.
Sally
Jones died May 14. Her age ‘varied’! Either way she was
loved by young and old alike. Constancy and generosity summed up Sally.
Her
family said they had to buy her things that they could nail to floor
otherwise
she would only give them away again! At TRM she was a member of almost
everything going. She was a real treasure and will be missed by all.
May
and June have seen a
bumper crop of youngsters joining the TRM family. Isaac Dearden, son of Adrian
and Trish, and Samuel Shipley,
son of
Catherine and Adrian were dedicated. Katie
Jukes, daughter of Matt and
Juliet, and Joe Harvey, son of
Sally and Jonathan, were baptised at
Totley Rise.
The
Membership service on
12 June saw 14 people formally join the church. As Rev Chris Kirk
explains,
deciding to become a member of TRM shows an individual’s commitment to
the life
ofthe church. Each new member shared their reasons for taking this
step, and
many testimonies mentioned the welcomes they had received on first
visiting the
church as the starting point for their decision to take this step. One
new
member, Bev Eyre described TRM as being “full of great heart-felt
warmth and
friendliness”.
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Unpredictable
Pentecost
Pentecost
Praise on
Sunday May 15 was planned to be different, but the whole day turned
out to be much more eventful than predicted.
The
morning Pentecost
Praise service had the extra joy of including the dedication of lsaac
Dearden, and then Trish, his Mum. sang a powerful version of There’s a
wind
a blowing. And the wind blew not only through that service with the
special
music group’s singing and the sense of God’s presence, but also in
other
activities during the day.
Our Youth
Church
Leaders are ‘Magic’
As a special treat the Youth
Church had arranged
for a circus workshop with a special
guest coming to teach circus tricks. When no one had arrived at 10.25
the
leaders phoned the guest. He had come down that morning to find that
all his
props were smouldering in his dining room. Our Youth
Church leaders rose to
the challenge. They found some ropes
and modeling balloons for the children to work on whilst another of
them went
home to get juggling plates and other materials. The youngsters still
had their
circus tricks and more - thanks to the ingenuity and talents of our own
leaders.
Christian Aid Hunger
Lunch
The morning service was followed by a hunger lunch in support of
Christian Aid. The money usually
spent on dinner was put into a special offering and those staying had a
meal of
bread and cheese. Looking at one person’s plate another was heard to
say “If that’s
a hunger lunch then it’s going to take you a long while to starve”. A
total of just
over £200 was raised for Christian Aid.
Personal
stories at the evening service
Pentecost
is a celebration of the Spirit of God coming to the church. In the
evening Roger Hoyle spoke about the gifts that the Spirit gives and
asked “Which gift have you been given?” Many people in the congregation
took the opportunity to describe the different gifts they had been
given by the Spirit as Christians. They included the gifts of joy,
peace, the desire to praise, the use of music in worship and many other
particular gifts for specific occasions as needed. One of the gifts
that the Spirit gives is insight into people’s needs and, before the
service, the leaders realised that the Spirit was saying to them
‘Release’. There were people there who needed release from things that
were stopping them living full lives. At the end of the service there
were people being prayed with for release from different things. It is
humbling and deeply moving to see God working in such powerful ways in
people’s lives.
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“Show me the way to Al Cabana” -
Girl Guide visits Mexico
Maddie
Stones, 14, is one of a
select group of girl guides visiting Mexico
this summer. Maddie started her guiding career in
TRM’s Rainbow group, and is now a Young Leader of the Brownies. Maddie
is the
only guide from Sheffield to have been chosen,
and will be representing guides
from the North East of England. Over the past 6 months, Maddie has been
furiously fundraising to meet her target of £1,500. “I’ve done
loads of
babysitting, face-painting, a car-boot sale and a raffle, says Maddie,
“and
spent one solid week washing up in my uncle’s café.” Maddie’s
efforts have been
rewarded with a fantastic £2,000, and she wants to say a huge
thank you to TRM
for a very generous donation.
Once
in Mexico,
Maddie will be spending 5 days in Mexico
City
before travelling to Al Cabana, a World Guide Centre
where the guides will be undertaking community-based projects, which
could
involve working in an orphanage or school. And if you think Maddie is
heading
for a challenge, spare a thought for her fellow air passengers: “We’ll
be singing
the moose song, with all the actions, for the whole 10-hour flight to Mexico”
says Maddie.
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Updating you
from
items in the last newsletter:-
Supporting Mencap
In
spite of running into the
proverbial wall at 18 miles, Nick Whitworth completed the London
Marathon in a
creditable 5 hours 22 minutes. He raised over £3,700 for Mencap.
£3,500 to FOIL AIDS
The
Bring and Buy Coffee morning
in support ofthe FOIL AIDS charity raised £525 on the day.
Further
generous gifts from church members at TRM have enabled £3,500 to
be sent to
AIDS work in South Africa.
Operation Christmas Child
Following
the Music for a
Spring Evening concert further gifts were received and several people
have
offered to help with completing more shoe boxes of presents for
Christmas this
year.
Cancer UK
Judy Gunner recently completed a
5 km run, and raised over £300 for Cancer UK,
a breast cancer charity. Many ofyou will have seen
on the church notice-board a photo of Judy sporting a t-shirt,
celebrating Viv
Thomas’ continued improvement. Judy wishes to thank friends and the
church
family for their support and generosity.
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Rain
did not stop Play
Heavy rain wasn’t enough to make people put down their paper plates and
pack away their thermos flasks at a huge picnic at Chatsworth on 22 May.
About 100 people braved grey clouds -and even stayed put during heavy
downpours — to share picnics and meet people from 5 churches across
Dore, Totley and Ecclesall.
The wet
weather continued for Ice
Cream Sunday on 12 June, where rain called an abrupt end to the
hula-hooping and bubble-gum blowing competition in the church garden,
but the afternoon continued inside the church with a l950s quiz and the
songs of the Hallmark of Harmony Barbershop Octet.
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24/7
Prayer week
From 12 to 19 June, there was praying round the clock at TRM.
Many people came to pray in the church lounge which had been
transformed into the Prayer Room, or, in the wee small hours, in homes
around Totley Rise. 168 hours of prayer were clocked up over the week.
This event was part of a worldwide inter-church prayer movement. The
immediate reaction from those taking part is of wanting more!
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